ABOUT YOUR SEPTEMBER COVER … As a lifetime Texan and hockey dad, I’m a bit offended. Okay, I’m over it. However, I’m wondering if you know that the state of Texas houses more pro hockey teams than any other state. I’m wondering if you know just how many kids (and adults) have chosen hockey over football as their sport of choice. Hockey welcomes the kids who are not the biggest, strongest, or fastest. Perhaps it is time for parents to have the chance to learn about this great sport. Those who have made the change have not looked back.
AS A SPORTS FAN who doesn’t buy into the football mentality of this state but instead loves the finesse, skill, and agility of hockey, I think you should do a hockey cover. Texas has a Stanley Cup—winning team, some of the highest-profile players in the league, and arguably one of the best-looking and most eligible men in Dallas [in Mike Modano]. Let’s see Drew Bledsoe or Terrell Owens do their jobs on ice!
THANKS FOR INCLUDING A NAME from my father’s era, Clyde “Bulldog” Turner, in “ Thank God It’s Friday” [September 2006]. I appreciate that the reach of your football memory includes players from different times and circumstances.
ODESSA PERMIAN A “must-see”? Upon what distant past decade of faded football glory do you base that opinion? The last Permian game I attended, against Midland Lee—much touted, broadcast by ESPN—was a humiliating, good old-fashioned butt kicking, and it was not Permian doing the kicking!
IT SEEMS LIKE every time you pick up a magazine, turn on the TV, or open a newspaper, you see articles on Texas high school football. That’s all fine and dandy, but why, why, why is it about only 5A schools and only the schools that did something spectacular during the previous season? No wonder the kids from 4A and down have a hard time getting noticed.
I THINK I’m tough as hell, but Gary Cartwright’s “ Main Squeeze Blues” made me cry [September 2006].
AT ELEVEN O’ CLOCK on a Wednesday night, I crawled into bed with my Texas Monthly to read myself to sleep. I flipped the magazine open to “Main Squeeze Blues,” and I started reading. At first I teared up, then the tears began to slide down my cheeks, and by the time I finished, I was openly sobbing. It is so obvious that Gary loved Phyllis very, very much. All of us women should be so lucky as to have a man in our lives who cherishes us as much as he did her. He couldn’t have given her (or us) a better gift than that special piece of writing.
Santa Ana, California
NORMALLY I TAKE the position that each of us has enough grief in life that it is altogether unnecessary to read of others’ personal losses and pain. But for some unknown reason I was into Gary Cartwright’s story before I realized it and was compelled to finish. Gary shared a personal and painful major loss in such a way that helps others, if only slightly, face such tragedy with a firm grip on the memories of happier times.
THANK YOU FOR PUBLISHING Gary and Phyllis Cartwright’s beautiful love story. What a lovely tribute to their wonderful life together. I hope their story will inspire others to consider hospice care should the need arise. It was an honor for Hospice Austin to help the Cartwrights during this poignant time in their lives. I hope that Mr. Cartwright can find solace in the knowledge that because of his lovely remembrance, he will be helping others who are facing